Bear from Obsession is a Straight BITCH!
So I watched Obsession the other day and my main takeaway from the film was that I can’t respect Bear. Why was he so obsessed with a woman you could easily find on a Friday night bartending at a Mexican joint? It’s not like he’d be able to talk to her anyway, either due to a language barrier or just being a straight bitch, but that’s besides the point. Nikki Freeman was a high-tier mid at best. I could respect his intense crush if she were an eight, nine, or a ten. I might find it cringe, but I could respect it. Been there, done that. Sure, she’s never going to date you, marry you, have children with you, and in all likelihood the story ends with you going to prison, but at least I could respect the grindset. I compare it to the black guy who is like twenty-one that insists he is going to make the League one day. It’s delusional but at least he has hopes and dreams. It’s what keeps us going in life. Keep your shooting your shot, champ.
As an aside and speaking of joining The League, Nikki is like 5’0”. Idk how tall Bear is but there is no chance their son would go pro. I could never date a bitch like that. Like if I had a kid with a 5’0” broad and assuming the height genes mix or however that shit works, my son would be like 5’6” at best. I could never respect him, perhaps even less than I respect Bear. I’d look down at that little nigga both literally and figuratively, the Tyrion to my Tywin.
What was so special about Nikki anyway? Why did he like this pick me broad so damn much? Was it because she spoke to Bear and was “the only girl nice to him” or whatever sappy shit he claimed when he moved to the area? Given everything that we know about this guy, I can’t help but wonder why! I wouldn’t be nice to him either. Nigga probably sat by himself at lunch doing the “boo hoo my life sucks” gimmick while eating a Lunchable (or a Feastable I guess idk what yns be eating nowadays). She doesn’t really seem to be all that special in the personality department either. What’s unique about her? That she wants to be a writer? So did every woman on Tumblr in the mid-2010s, big fucking deal. Have you seen the kind of romantasy bullshit broads are pumping out nowadays (easy money tho so I can't hate). She’s the embodiment of the Buzz Lightyear toy on a shelf meme. Dude fell in love with a mass market Latina, I’m sick to my stomach.
Bear is also just a straight up retard. He goes to this gimmick novelty shop to replace Nikki’s necklace that fell down the drain (idiot) and winds up buying her the One Wish Willow thing, which is essentially just a stick you make a wish upon. Just take her on a date and throw a penny into a fountain broke ass nigga. He can’t do that though because for some reason he bitches out of telling her his feelings. What’s he so afraid of? It’s not like she’s his boss or she’s some dime piece he’s afraid of losing as a friend, they work at a fucking music store. If she says no just pick another one, women like Nikki are a dime a dozen. Idk what Bear’s problem was and I’m tired of trying to find out. He’s just a straight up bitch. I’m glad he overdosed.